There is a hypothesis due to Cairns-Smith that life actually began as self-replicating clay crystals, which are silicates. These then associated with organic molecules and the organics finally took over ('Seven Clues to the Origin of Life').
Because it is likely that the origin of life involved processes of low probability, we need material that is exceedingly abundant to give it a chance of starting. If you need a 'miracle' give it as much space, time and matter as possible to happen in! The elements most vital to life, H,C,N,O are also the most abundant reactive elements in the Universe, and there are vast quantities of compounds of C,N and O with H in Space. These compounds readily form more complex molecules which can be precursors to living matter.
Si, whilst abundant, has so high an affinity for O that it is all converted to silicates; such substances as SiH4 which might be precursors to more complex molecules do not form. So it is unlikely that life-forms based on polysilanes rather than hydrocarbons could form either.
Boron, which has an exceedingly rich chemistry, has also been proposed as a basis for life, but it is an exceedingly rare element in the Universe, and like Si also has a very high affinity for oxygen.
If life based on boron ever turned up, it would be proof of extraterrestrial intelligence, since it could never form naturally. There are no vast quantities of boranes out there in which it could start. There are, however, vast quantities of hydrocarbons - and silicates, relevant if Cairns-Smith is right!