I think I see the question you are asking. As you've shown, there are two reasonable looking products that could form from the reaction your considering. And in the course of the reaction, both products probably form transiently. But enamine/imine formations are reactions which are very easily reversible. That is, the energy of activation for the reverse set of reactions is relatively low. This means that the thermodynamic product will be favored. Only the primary amine forms a stable, uncharged product with a C=N pi bond, which is stronger than a C=C pi bond. This makes the imine more stable.
Another example of this concept is the addition of HBr to an alkene with multiple pi bonds. But in that case it's easier to control the course of the reaction by altering temperature. Enamine/ime formation is reversable at a lower temperature.
We can also consider the nucleophility of each nitrogen in the reactant, but this is probably not as important to the course of the reaction because the product is thermodynamically controlled. The phenyl group next to the nitrogen is mildly electron withdrawing by resonance, making it less nucleophilic than primary amine. Also, it is more stearically hindered. If we had a regular alkyl group (slightly electron donating) that might make a secondary nitrogen more nucleophilic,but I believe the imine product would still form because of the reversability of the reaction.