I suppose in most cases it will immediately react with water
Yes, it will immediately react with water to form the neutral amine.
Looking back through the thread, I think you two may have been talking about different things. There are three possibilities for the nitrogen atom of an amine at varying "pH":
LOW pH: The amine will be protonated - NR
3H
+. This ammonium cation will be water soluble.
MID pH: Careful with your wording here. The amine will be the neutral NR
3. The amine (NR
3) will be 'deprotonated' with respect to the ammonium cation (NR
3H
+), but the amine (NR
3) will be 'protonated' compared to its anion (NR
2-).
HIGH pH: The amine will be deprotonated and will exist briefly as its metal amide (NR
2-). As noted, though, if we're talking about an aqueous solution here, the metal amide will be the strongest base and will pull a proton off water to protonate the metal amide (NR
2-) to the neutral amine (NR
3).
I think when minimal was using the word 'deprotonated' (as in the original post), the term was being used to mean the product of the reaction would be NR
2-. When Borek was using 'deprotonated', it was used to mean the product of the reaction would be NR
3. Am I interpreting your intentions wrong?
Bottom line: NR
3H
+ is water soluble. NR
3 is not water soluble
(edit: this is inaccurate, see clarification in subsequent post). NR
2- will react with water to form NR
3 - not water soluble.