I don't understand why when there's an equation that has different coeficients or different indexes on both sides it must have some different counting... like: 2Au2O3 4Au + 3O2
No idea what you men by different counting.
2 molecules of Au
2O
3 decompose into 4 atoms of gold and 3 diatomic molecules of oxygen.
You start with 2 molecules of Au
2O
3, each containing 2 atoms of gold, that makes 4 atoms of gold on the left. There are 4 atoms of gold on the right - so it is the same number of atoms of gold in reactants and in products.
You start with 2 molecules of Au
2O
3, each containing 3 atoms of oxygen, that makes 6 atoms of oxygen. There are 3 molecules of diatomic molecules of oxygen on the right, that makes 6 atoms of oxygen - so there are identical numbers of oxygen atoms on both sides.
Thsi equation can be also read in a slightly different way, that is more convenient for stoichiometric calculations. See this page:
http://www.chembuddy.com/?left=balancing-stoichiometry&right=stoichiometric-calculations