Hello RPatasu
The removal of dicyclohexylurea, DCU, from any reaction mixture can be a serious pain for the synthetic chemist! I remember as a PhD student having to deal with large quantities of this substance, which was the by-product of my dicyclohexylcarbodiimide (DCC) mediated coupling reactions.
If you are desperate to see a DCU spot on your TLC plate, I would suggest one of the following stains:
1) 2,4-Dinitrophenyl hydrazine (gives red and yellow spots against an orange background). Prepare by dissolving 2,4-Dinitrophenyl hydrazine (12 g) in a mixture of concentrated sulfuric acid (60 ml), deionised water (80 ml) and ethanol (200 ml).
2) Potassium Permanganate (gives yellow spots against a violet background, but may require gentle heating to visualise spots). Prepare from potassium permanganate (3 g) and potassium carbonate (20 g) in 5% aqueous sodium hydroxide (5 ml) and deionised water (300 ml).
In some of my reactions, separation of DCU from my reaction mixture was quite literally impossible. I found two ways in which separation could be achieved by alternative means, however, and I would be happy to share these with you.
First, instead of using silica gel as a purification sorbent try Florisil(R). This magnesia-silica gel is much less polar than standard silica and your DCU should be eluted from it without streaking and without the requirement of a polar solvent.
If your supervisor is feeling generous why not try silica-bound carbodiimide instead of DCC? This reagent is basically silica gel whose hydroxyl (OH) functional groups have been converted to carbodiimide (N=C=N) groups. It is completely insoluble in all reaction media, since it is fully end-capped, so at the end of your reaction the notorious urea by-product would be bound to the silica and removed by filtration.
If you need more help or information drop me an email. I would be happy to send you experimental conditions or tips on catch-and-release techniques.
Best wishes
Athan