Apparently someone's missing something, yes, graphite and diamond are both carbon-bonded compounds, but the two differ in the type of bonding. Graphite bonds extends in a linear (or 2D) direction, the final structure is made up of layers upon layers of graphene (as MrTeo have pointed out) that rub off of eachother when you write with a pencil. Because paper is made up of cellulose, it binds to the layers of graphene tighter than the layers of graphene bind to each other.
Now, back to diamonds. I would say that a diamond
might be a molecule, depends on how closely you want to look. If we consider "pure" diamond, as in absolutly pure, all carbon, no metal ligand (metal ions) of any kind trapped inside the crystal formation, then yes, the diamond is just one gigantic molecule. Unfortunately, most diamonds are not pure, stuff gets trapped inside, in more extreme cases, they actually change the colour of the diamond (such as the Hope Diamond, it has too much boron inside it, or chocolate diamonds, which has too much nickel). In most cases, you could say that a diamond is a mixture, though the carbon crystal structure that holds the entire thing together could be considered as one molecule.
One more thing, the tetrahedral carbon-carbon structure, although very rigid, is also a bit unstable. Remember that diamonds are formed under intense heat and pressure (so the notebook under the press idea, no; notebook under the press in an oven might work though), but on the earth's surface you don't have these conditions, so the diamond structure is shifting back to its original form, graphite, abide extremely slowly, though the process is spontaneous (i.e. exothermic, will happen without outside interference). I once did a calculation on the decomposition of diamond
graphite, it turned out that for one gram of diamond to fully decompose into one gram of graphite, in completely isolated condition, takes around 2.4 billion years and gives off 4.7J of energy in heat, so yea, don't have to worry about waking up one day to find your wedding ring had turned into pencil lead.