For a diffracting liquid, what you need is actually a compound that is liquid in normal conditions but that will crystallise perfectly when an external stimuli is applied (electrical field, temperature, mechanical pressure, light, magnetic field,... whatever). The crystalline form with a unit cell around a few microns should diffract nicely. Then, once the external stimuli is removed, the product returns to its liquid state... There is no physical law that says it is impossible to do. But I am afraid such a fine control over matter is still well beyond current technical reach. I doubt anyone on earth knows how to do that.
That being said, there are always ways around a problem.
I think the idea of a spray onto a sheet of glass is at least possible, although not easy, if you accept to have only circular diffractions (to give you an idea, see the small picture named "A computer-generated image of an Airy disk" half way through the page
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diffraction) instead of the discrete diffractions you showed on the picture.
The circular diffraction arises from a crystalline powder, as opposed to a single crystal with discrete directions. If you spray a compound onto a surface and it crystallises there, you'll end up with thousands of very small crystals (so called crystalline powder). There is practically no chance to get a nice single crystal from it. Simply said, a powder contains a large number of very small single crystals, each one of them diffracts with specific directions. Unfortunately, they are not in the same orientation in respect with one another. So, they all diffract with different directions. Overall, you end up with circles instead of dots.
So, for your project, you need to spray particles onto a surface where they should crystallise. Those spherical particles should have a size of a few microns if you want visible light to diffract. Importantly, the particles should be monodisperse (all with exactly the same size), or else they won't pack well. You'll need to find a way to mix them with a volatile solvent (ethanol for instance) just before you spray the mixture onto a surface. The solvent will evaporate, leaving behind the particles that hopefully will arrange themselves into an ordered pattern (you need to get lucky for that). Finally, for better effect, use a monochromatic light source (a laser). As well, you need to study the interactions between the particles and the surfaces (you don't want them to fall down as soon as the solvent evaporates...
). OK, that's all I can think of.
As you realise, it is a very difficult project. And what you're doing is only a powder diffraction (circular) and not the single crystal (discrete light dots). Growing a single crystal onto a large surface is nearly impossible (you're more likely to win jackpot in a casino three times in row, than that happening).