This is a good question, but one for which a simple good answer may not be available. The correct answer probably involves cost, ease of preparation, solubility, stability, and reactivity (or hazard). For those who may have used even some of the more reactive alkyllithium reagents, you know that the titer or shelf life is limited. If a more reactive equivalent were prepared, would it be sufficiently stable for use as a commercial reagent (arguably a significant factor in degree of use)?
A variety alkyllithium reagents are commercially available and are reasonably cheap and stable. I think that probably explains their popularity.
If anyone has experience with equivalent organometallic sodium or potassium reagents, please comment on their properties.