Pet Ether will not work since Fluorescein will not be soluble at all and it will also not be miscible with water.
You can try chloroform, acetonitrile or a Pet ether/ethyl acetate mixture. I always take a small amount of the compound which I want to recrystallize (~5mg), put it in several test tubes and add various solvents (few drops) to the different test tubes. If it will not dissolve at room temperature (this is good) I just heat a bit and have a look what happens.
Good luck!