Just FYI, that pyrrole "look-alike" is called imidazole. Much easier to say than "sort-of-pyrrole"
I would actually say that pyridine is more basic than imidazole because at any given time either nitrogen could be the one participating in the aromaticity of the ring. Those double bonds aren't static and you have no way of knowing which nitrogen is free. In pyridine, that lone pair doesn't participate. Ever. That means it's always available, whereas in imidazole you don't get that certainty.
I do agree that 3 and 4 are m-nitropyridine and pyrrole. Remember though, it's not just the electron withdrawing nature of the nitro that's important, but that it's in the meta position which lines it up perfectly to suck the electron density away from the nitrogen.