My first attempt at opening a frozen glass joint is with a heat gun. Clamp the hose adapter so that the round bottom is suspended about 1/2" above a pad of paper towel, so if it drops off it won't break. Then heat the joint with the heat gun and tap the top rim of the roundbottom joint as you heat. You should see a change in the way the light shines through the joint as the joint heats up. Something heavy and wooden is best for tapping, but since I rarely have something like that, I use the back end of a large pair of forceps - gives nice accurate taps. If you see the joint change transparency but it still doesn't drop off after you've tapped it a while, you can pick it up using your insulated gloves (you are wearing insulated gloves, aren't you?) and try to twist it off. Don't put pressure on the bent end of the hose adaptor, or you may snap that off and have some nice jagged glass to deal with.
If that doesn't work, allow it to cool until you can hold it with your bare hands, then put some heptane or hexane on the top of the joint and let it soak in. Some light tapping here might also help. Then repeat the heat gun.
If all else fails, go to the torch, but you might want to remove your material from the flask first. A long needle on a syringe will allow you to add solvent to dissolve your product, and remove it from the flask through the hose adapter.
Good luck - I hate to say it, but practice really does help in disassembling frozen joints. You can expect to break a few during the process - think about how you will protect your product when your joint breaks (not "if" - "when").