Excuse me, but as per my understanding, any atom directly attached to the ring which has a partial or full positive charge, can withdraw electrons from the ring either through mesomerism or the inductive effect. The mesomerism gives directive influence, and trifluoromethyl is a meta directing group. The inductive effect does not direct groups; it merely withdraws electrons from the closest position it gets.
Now in a normal substituted benzene molecule (substituted with electron withdrawers), the mesomeric effect dominates over the inductive effect, providing m-directivity and deactivation. In halogens, the -I effect dominates largely over the +R effect and even though through mesomerism, electrons are given to the ring providing o,p-directivity, the -I effect overrides it by deactivating it.
In a benzyne molecule which has just lost its triple bond to a nucleophilic addition, the carbanion cannot delocalise over the ring. Resonance simply cannot occur..and hence the inductive effect is taken as the benchmark to decide products. I don't know what you're trying to prove by saying that triflouromethyl does not have a mesomeric effect, it does, in trifluoromethylbenzene the meta directivity IS due to the -R effect. Resonance can withdraw from the ring or give to the ring; in tri-fmbenzene it withdraws.
So I'm not mixing up products....
I reiterate my stand. If you say those carbanions can resonate, prove it to me by drawing the canonical structures.