My intuition as well (but I'm no chemist) shouts against ceramics, especially oxides like glass, to host hot sodium.
You'll find engineering knowledge about hot sodium at nuclear breeder reactors, where sodium serves as the primary coolant (replacing hydrogen hence water as neutrons must be kept fast). They invested rather long development into handling liquid sodium. As far as I know, they use metallic tubes and vessels, with some refractory coating, maybe W (I'd stay away from Al Cr Ti Ta Nb and any metal that relies on an oxide layer...) to prevent sodium from dissolving the base metal.
As well, the least bad method found for pumping liquid sodium is by eddy currents in the sodium itself. I'd let a strong permanent magnet rotate, or use a big electromagnet, near the liquid sodium.
Design challenges are big enough that you may prefer to give up your double confinement in favour of a fire extinguisher. How many grams of sodium do you handle? Reactor designers preferred a catcher in the ground that would collect leaked sodium and insulate it from air.