Your LDA combusted? That stuff is supposed to be non-pyrophoric. Bottles of prepared reagent that have been sitting around for a long time do evolve LiH, maybe it was some of that which ignited on you. Or, if you generated it in situ from diisopropylamine and butyl lithium, you may have had excess butyl lithium left over.
As for your original question, I've made dichlorocarbene from chloroform and NaH (60% in mineral oil) in THF.