Rolnor, the post you quoted was from Sept 2015, and I haven't seen that name in a while. I doubt he will respond.
In terms of studying this, it seems to me that dynamic light scattering would be the way to look at this. You take silica gel, suspend it in some solvent or solvent mixture, filter it through a frit that should stop the gel, and put it on DLS. If the silica is truly dissolved there won't be particles, if its just suspended, there will be a DLS profile of particle sizes.