Ahh, but the point of my post was that people give definitions because they don't know the real answer and don't care to say so. It's fine if you like the answer "because it's just that way", but it's not really an answer. Just because the reason is not know does not mean that there is no reason, just that the reason is unknown. I like the "more stable" explanation too, but its still not an answer, but just a restating of the original question, really. The question "Why does CaCl2 draw water out of the air" equals "because the hydrate is more stable" since it just leads to the obvious question, "why is the hydrate more stable?" It's actually very close to just saying "because it's hygroscopic", since it's not telling you anything at all about the chemistry involved. In other words, sorry to say, it's just another definition. Are there compounds that are just magically hygroscopic, while others are not, and for some unknown reason, they are more stable when they can draw water to them from the air to make hydrates? Is the only way to tell if a given chemical will be hygroscopic or not through empirical evidence, or is there a way to predict it? And where did this energy come from that is making it less stable? Is there something about the chemical bond of the anhydrous salt that make it attract water?
There was an article on the Newton website (mentioned earlier) which actually talked about this too (sorry, can't find it again). Some students were convinced that gravity is caused by the spin of the earth, and that if the earth weren't rotating about it's axis, there would be no gravity. The writer went on and on about how people like to think they know something, even if they find out they are wrong later, rather than admit they just don't know. (Actually, he called it an American trait, which says more about what he thinks of Americans than the trait, which is ubiquitous among those who don't like admitting they don't know, no matter what their nationality). So really it is about knowing what you know and knowing what you don't know, which is a very important trait for anyone to have.