Well, I've only turned it on manually for at most 3 threads since I've been on, because I don't really need that much info. When logged in, comments to threads I've commented to have a different icon, so I can find them easily.
The admins and the mods [I'm one of the new ones :pats own back: ] do the best we can, but its a tougher battle than you'd expect. One of the most important qualifications for a Mod, above and beyond chemistry knowledge, and a sufficiently stable personality in the face of some really stubborn posters, is being able to log in at a time when another Mod can't.