I've wondered about this too, and here's what I figured out:
Consider the formation of lithium fluoride and sodium fluoride to see why Li is higher on the activity series.
OK if we were making these compounds what would we have to do? First we'd make the ions.
Na
Na
+ + e
-Li
Li
+ + e
-Okay, that took more energy for lithium. Sodium has the lead right now. But consider the next step.
Na
+ + F
- NaF
Li
+ + F
- LiF
Li has a smaller radius, and they both have the same charge, so by the potential energy equation which you might remember from physics (kq
1q
2/r), this is going to be a lot more exothermic for Lithium, so Lithium wins in the end.
I was never taught this, it's just what I figured when I learned about the activity series. Correct me if I'm wrong.