Ok, yes I have been drawing my products poorly I guess I am rushing too much and this is effecting my thinking, getting anxious because we have only had lectures on carbonyl chemistry, we have no tutorials ( do not know why) the tuts jumped straight from aromatics to quantam chemistry. This is also my first ever organic chem course I have taken.
So I formed the tetrehedral product, I then lose OEt-, not sure if I am correct but I thought, the Oet- that has left the tetrehedral carbon is a strong enough base to remove a hydrogen alpha to the di carbonyls, this is the driving force of the reaction, but there is a step somewhere in which you can add alkyl halides via Sn2, let me try I will draw as neat as possible.