Hello all,
Background: Carbenes can exist as singlet species, with both nonbonding electrons in an sp2-hybridized orbital. In this case there will be a vacant p-orbital on the carbon atom. Carbenes can also exist as triplet species, in which one electron will reside in the sp2-hybridized orbital, and the other in the p-orbital. However, triplet configurations are not observed for the heavier analogues of carbenes (silylenes, germylenes, stannylenes, and plumbylenes). In all cases they exist as singlet species.
The geometry of these species is also different - in a heavier analogue, the angle between the substituents is closer to 90 degrees than 120 degrees (the approximate bond angle in sp2-hybridized systems). This is because the tendency to form hybridized orbitals decreases on descending group 14...I accept this fact, but I don't fully understand it. I was told it had to do with the promotion energy, but none of the textbooks I own provide an adequate discussion.
Could someone explain why the heavier group 14 elements do not form hybridized orbitals?