First...what makes you think PCl
3 and POCl
3 are 'similar'?
When it comes to formula...yes...but then again, CH
4 and CH
3OH are 'similar' like that. But a quick check of their properties shows that the two have different stabilities, reactivities, and applications.
Your prof probably wants you to look at the STRUCTURE of each, and see what one has, that the other doesnt....and how that unique feature aids in each of the reactions you described.
Good luck.