It should be lithium.
Another source that I considered trusted down the drain
I have seen this question is several places. In one of them it was printed in two versions - one called for addition of Me
2O for neutralization, other for addition on MeOH, both were claimed to yield the same result. Turns out MeOH version is wrong, but I have not checked it before posting - I have solved Me
2O version only.
For Me
2O and starting from very similar equations you both did it is possible to show that mass of HX must equal
[tex]m_{HX} = \frac {100} {9} (R_{Me}-1)[/tex]
That's very similar to the latest equation listed by Dan. 100 is a mass of water (not of the solution!) in the HX solution, 9 is half of the molar mass of water, R
Me is molar mass of metal. For lithium that yields around 66.6 gram of HX, and concentration of
[tex]\frac{66.6}{100+66.6}100\% = 40\%[/tex]
and over 70% for sodium - so it can be safely assumed it must be Li, as 70% solutions won't be stable at STP.
Sadly, it doesn't work this way for MeOH, as you have both shown.
Edited the original wording of the problem.