To understand what's happening in this reaction, it's important to realize there is no true "backside attack" in SN1 reactions. The backside attack to which you refer is endemic to the SN2 reaction where the HOMO of incoming nucleophile interacts with the LUMO (sigma antibonding orbital) of the electrophile. That's not happening here.
The top group is the one forming the most stable carbocation because it's benzylic and secondary. This is more stable than the benzylic and primary carbocation that would form on the bottom. Most importantly, this is what explains the outcome of the reaction.
Once that top carbocation is formed, it's sp2 hybridized and trigonal planar. Keep in mind it can rotate to place the methyl group in the front or the back.
You need to rotate bonds on the bottom carbon to place oxygen in the correct trajectory for bonding with the empty p-orbital, which undergoes concomitant rehybridization to an sp3 orbital.
The last step in the process in removal (HPO4- [pKa ~7] / H2O [pKa 15.7]) of the H+ from the protonated ether. The most basic species in solution is the alcohol [pKa ~16]. Since H2O is the second most basic species in solution (delta pKa = 0.3), it may also be involved. The proton might be abstracted by another secondary benzylic alcohol, thereby setting it up for the reaction.
It's unlikely the HPO4- will be the base in the deprotonation step (delta pKa = 9).
This is the answer to your question. The answer has very little value. What's important is that you understand the logic behind the answer.
Your success in Organic Chemistry depends upon you ability to apply the information learned in a logical manner. What was important here was (1) identification of the mechanism based upon the results; (2) deduction that pKa data as well as carbocation stability support the results; (3) identification of the nucleophile(s); and (4) identification of the penultimate electrophile.
The mechanistic Organic Chemistry will continue to build. Even though this exam is challenging, down the road you'll consider it easy in comparison to that on the horizon. The learning is in the struggle.
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