I think you need to reconsider the structure. I agree with the para substitution of the ring but why do you think the nitrogen and oxygen are joined together? Also on your 2nd structure you have only 2 bonds to the nitrogen.
The evidence is:
- para substituted aromatic ring - 2 peaks at ~7ppm with integration of 2H each
- CH3 group next to 2H - triplet ~1ppm with integration of 3H
- CH2 next to 3H - quartet ~4ppm with integration of 2H
this is most likely CH2CH3
- CH3 group not coupled to any other H - single peak ~2ppm with integration of 3H
- X-H not coupled to any other H - single peak ~9ppm with integration of 1H
X is N or O given the shift
Can you put this info together to give another structure that a chemspider search will show matches up exactly with the attached spectra including the peaks marked as impurities/TMS