I confused myself as to what I was even asking, so I'm trying to rephrase my original question..
I don't understand how water and methanol will bond, if at all. If there is a mixture of 50:50 methanol water, what bonding takes place between the water and methanol?
Both molecules (water and methanol) are covalently bonded, and polar. They both will exhibit hydrogen bonding becuase of the O-H bond in their molecular structure, and they will both exhibit dipolar forces.
In this case, methanol is added to the water, and the water acts as a solvent.
I know the methanol water mixture has a greater polarity than just water by itself and methanol by itself.
Can someone help me understand why the polarity of the mixture is stronger?
I hope that cleared it up a bit, and thanks for helping me by making me think it through by myself! That's the best kind of help, and the only true way one can learn!