Which one is more stable: a 1° carbocation or a 1°carbanion? Why?
Actually, I cannot think of any instance in which a molecule could form an anion or cation. Although I believe energetically the carbanion is lower in energy, that would not make it more likely to form than a carbocation in a reaction of CH3Cl with AlCl3.
On a similar note, which one is more stable: a 3° carbocation or a 1° carbanion? Again, why?
I think the more appropriate question is which is more stable, CH3(-) or Me3C(-) and why? Here, I'll give a hint. It is CH3(-). Why? If you can answer this, you should be able to answer which cations should be more stable.