Hi monicad95, welcome here!
Just a note before you get more orthodox answers:
Electrons do what's best for them. Descriptions as orbital combinations is just what we humans would have liked them to do so we can understand their behaviour.
Electrons interact strongly within an atom or a molecule. Though, the only algebraic solutions we have is for the lone hydrogen atom (something rare on Earth), so we pretend to misuse these solutions for atoms and molecules of several electrons and nuclei. This demands strong updates to the model here and there.
Linear algebra tells that the wave of any electron caught by a nucleus is a weighed sum of orbitals, but this holds for one nucleus. Chemical bonds between atoms are commonly and usefully described as sums and differences of the orbitals of individual atoms, but this is an approximation that would hold if the atoms were far apart - not very accurate in a bond.
As schrödinger's equation is linear, any weighed sum of solutions is a solution... but orbitals are special solutions: stationary ones, where the wave's modulus doesn't change over time, only the phase does. A weighed sum of orbitals having exactly the same energy, say 2px and 2py, is still an orbital - but if the energies differ, even a little bit as between 2s and 2p, then the waves' phases rotate at different paces, and the weighed sum is not stationary, is not an orbital, because the locations where the 2s and 2p add or subtract vary over time. In this sense, a weighed sum like sp3 is not an orbital.
Carbon uses to bind with several more atoms, and the resulting orbitals span each over all neighbours, instead of over one atom pair or one "bond".
With that in mind, it's clearer that bonds and hybrid orbitals are an approximation. They shouldn't be stretched too far trying to explain everything. Though, molecular orbitals are less accessible to reasoning and I haven't seen them used to predict on the paper reaction mechanisms for instance (a theory still to be created?), while bonds and hybrid orbitals are a fertile model, so these must be known.