This is one of the often repeated questions in basic chemistry that comes up very often, with no satisfying answer. I'm going to try to help, but I think, mana:, that you've oversimplified the problem, to your own detriment. And, rolnor:, I think you've overstated the challenge, probably because you know how challenging it is.
Computational chemistry, and bioinformatics, are fascinating, rapidly growing fields. They hold their birth to widespread inexpensive minicomputers arising worldwide post-WWII (yeah, I mean a major university room-sized computer) and the blossoming happens more and more rapidly with each computer innovation. More and more, we're directing the design and testing of pharmaceutical molecules, by conventional chemical means, based on an initial computed design.
There is no single text book or webpage summarizing these concepts. That we don't have one of those, doesn't make the underlying concept impossible, nor does it make us some sort of jurassic idiots who can't see the future developments.
By way of crude analogy, there is no web page with a systematic design of advanced military fighter aircraft.
"Duh, stupid, its impossible to design your own warplane, Arkcon:"
"Nuh-uh, governments constantly improve and innovate fighter aircraft. And the first heavier than air aircraft were built by hobbyists, I just need the right textbook"
Urm. No. That's all simply not possible. Bits of those statements are true, but you can't validate or invalidate the entire discussion by picking and choosing.
I saw both Iron Man movies, but I never wasted my money on palladium just to get my own arc reactor started.