Hi noneed2live,
Your question is in fact very different from the question in the other thread. Arkcon might have been thinking about something else.
In any case, as you mention there are indeed four different units attached to the nitrogen atom you mentioned. But before you go any further, you need to consider the hybridization and geometry of this nitrogen atom. Is this nitrogen atom tetrahedral?
Hope this helps!
(P.S. By the way, you need to be wary of nitrogen atoms when looking at stereocenters. Although this consideration may not apply to your specific compound, always remember that most tetrahedral nitrogen atoms with three groups and a lone pair invert very rapidly. If the three groups attached to this tetrahedral nitrogen are different, then the nitrogen atom is indeed a stereocenter, and the two tetrahedral structures related through inversion at the nitrogen center are enantiomers. However, since the nitrogen inversion is very rapid, it will usually not be possible to isolate only one of the enantiomers.)