True a lot of recycling does occur in 3rd world poor countries as you describe but much is done in advance countries even here in the US that uses more modern, safer technology. I shortened my message to try and be brief but maybe wasn't too clear so I will try a slighter longer description but still omitting details so please understand that just because i have a list of chemicals doesn't mean I would mix all of them at once but only a combination of some but just different mixes.
The chances of me killing myself from this are very slim. I am not jumping into this on a whim or by watching a youtube video. Yes I do watch them but I view many different ones and many different ways that people are doing this. I read technical books and information and I ask tons of questions. I see how others do it and I try to find ways to improve upon it or which will work better in my situation.
Currently, I am removing all of the copper and aluminum from the boards by hand which is very time consuming and if was paying laborers it would not be worth it. Palladium is in MCC's which are on almost all electronic circuit boards.
I have been seeing methods for recovering each of these individual metals from using combinations of Hydrochloric acid, bleach, hydrogen peroxide, etc, also by shredding, crushing, pulverizing and more. I have seen shaker tables with water separation, air, and all sorts. I was just kicking around the idea of cutting out all of the time consuming labor of removing the copper, aluminum, MCC chips, tantalum chips, gold bearing parts, etc and just throw the whole electronic device into a shredder, then into a pulverizer and turn everything into powder then give it the aqua regia bath and reclaim everything from there.
I hope some of this makes sense.