I don't understand how protonated diethyl amine would elute from a silica column. Can you provide a structure of your presumed product at this stage?
Well, in order to get anything after the dibenzofulvene off the column I ended up running 60% MeOH in chloroform through it. I'm not sure why it's protonated, I included 0.05% TEA in the solvents run through the column. It seems that if it were unprotonated it would have evaporated after this many rounds of vacuum and different solvents, but maybe something else is keeping it from coming off. I do know I have diethylamine, it's very clear from the NMR.
I described the compound in my reply to wildfyr above.
The solid I have right now seems to be white with yellow streaks through it, I'm not sure what it implies but it's... something.
Right now I've exhausted the advice of the chemists in the lab and my ability to find anything via searching, so here I am.